Nur Kasih

Siapa yang tak tengok Nur Kasih. It reaches almost 2.4 million viewers last year semasa drama ini sedang ditayangkan. It was rated as most viewed drama series TV3 has ever screened. Memang tipu paling tak munasabah kalau ada yang kata tidak pernah tengok drama ini; at least one episode pun mesti ada yang tengok. Even yang tengah study overseas pon sanggup tengok drama through web. Tambah pula bila dah boleh view through web, adalah yang tengok berjuta kali ulang. Sila jangan tipu! Ini adalah kebenarannya walaupun awak malu nak mengaku.

The reason was simply because, jalan cerita dia sangat best dan berkaitan dengan keadaan reality kehidupan sekarang (ditambah pula dengan pelakon-pelakon yang sungguh menawan kalbu kerana kehebatan mereka dalam menjayakan watak) EXCEPT for one particular part which I'm not really agreed.

Ok, lets face it, mana ada wanita yang sanggup hidup bermadu. Walaupun seribu tahun, tidak ada wanita di muka bumi ini yang mempunyai 9 nafsu sanggup untuk hidup bermadu. Walaupun percentage wanita yang sanggup berkorban jiwa untuk hidup bermadu ini MUNGKIN, mungkin ada tetapi percentagenya sangatlah sekecil semut. I'm a woman and I know how it feels hidup bermadu. It's no fun. Even isteri-isteri Nabi juga ada timbul perasaan cemburu sesama mereka inikan pula kita wanita yang bernafsu 9. Kalau tak tarik rambut memang tak sah. Tambahan pula, lelaki pada zahirnya tidak akan boleh berlaku adil kerana mereka dilahirkan tidak sempurna dan akan pasti membuat kesilapan kerana mereka bukan semulia Nabi. Itu adalah hakikatnya.

So yeah, cara perjalanan Nur Aminah dalam bermadu adalah kurang boleh diterima pakai.

You know why the sudden of writing about Nur Kasih, it is on TV3 now airing during Sahur time. It got me thinking, if I were in her shoes, how would I react.

Knowing lelaki yang pada zahirnya tidak pernah berasa cukup dengan apa yang telah dikurniakan kepadanya, Izwan jokingly asked if he was to marry another one, how would I react? So I replied (and he thought that my reply was nothing serious) honestly that I would agree to it but he has to promise me that he will do nothing behind my back. Meaning to say, if he decided to marry another one, he has to come clean with me. I will "pinangkan" the lady for him. Yes, this may sound stupidly ridiculous but my reply does not stop just yet. I want nothing from him after he married the other lady. I would live separately at a different house and if we were to have children together, I'll bring along and we live together without him as a father. No, I would not ask for a divorce but I rather stay and live on my own at my on path. Tidak terikat dan dia juga tidak ada hak untuk meminta atau menguruskan. I don't want him to pay for any nafkah(s) as I want nothing from him. Yes, he is allowed to come and visit the children but he has no right to stay. I set my own rules and it is for him to follow. I will prepare for him; the kenduri, pinang and whatnot but he has to leave me in peace.

Guess what he replied. You figure it out!

So you see, although there's possibilities of agreement in "hidup bermadu" but there's always reasons behind it. Securities, responsibilities among husband and wife tidak lupa jugak si madu (sanggup betul dia ambik laki orang) and the assurance of being fair to both families. Ini semua bukan satu perkara yang mudah.

Kerana hati perempuan adalah sangat lembut dan lemah. One may looks tough and independent but you may never know what's inside her heart. The pain she carries. You would never know!

Jadi kepada lelaki-lelaki, before you decided to marry another lady, fikirlah masak-masak. Sekian terima kasih.

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Fadhilat Solat Terawih Malam Ke-Limabelas
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