Sebelum Akad Nikah

Chop! Noticed the post title?! It's very wedding-material-type. Oh, Ini saja dibuat-buat untuk menaikan semangat ke-kahwin-an. No, I'm not going to write about my wedding prep. It's just that I have too many free time I got to find ways in wasting it. You see, July is a month where work is being extremely nice to me. I go to work every morning, start the day with a cup of coffee with 2 karipaps, checking mails, facebooking a bit and if I'm lucky enough, I got the chance to play game till work day ends.

No, I don't usually get these kind of treatment with work but like I said earlier on, July is being nice to me. No, it's not a hint for some to get their pockets ready for me. It's what really happening now. Free time at work.

Couple of days ago, there was a meeting that I had to attend to. Was planning to go with my colleague but it so happened that I woke up late that morning. It left me with no choice but to ask my father to send me to the clients' office. While we were in the car and as expected, he, the father started his morning "kuliah" with how irresponsible I am for not able to plan my time especially when it comes to attending a meeting. Well, it's not my queue to argue coz it IS my fault after all for waking up late and to fight with my father about time consuming is a big no-no. He is known for his punctuality. I rest my case!

Me being me, I just sat there observing cars that passed us by, singing along the radio (quietly of course); listening to his "kuliah" sebelah telinga.

So anyway, the "kuliah" was a different kind of "kuliah" compared to his other "kuliahs" that I've listened to my attire life. The tone was more calming. He talks about responsibilities in a different kind of manner. Each point that he pointed out hit me like a bullet and it hits me hard.

1. What ever that I do, I have to put everything into consideration. Sebab lepas kahwin dah ada 2 orang yang perlu di jaga.
2. Lepas kahwin, jangan nak buat decision last minute. You might never know what your husband's plan for that day.
   
3. Jangan nak lambat-lambat bangun. Nanti dah kahwin, duduk rumah sendiri, you have to look after your own family. Makan, minum, pakai semua.

And the list goes on. You get the picture don't you?!

My father is all excited about these whole getting married thingy. I guess, he's all prepared to let her daughter go which is a sadden to me though. Heh, terbalik. But we'll just wait and see till the day he nikahkan Izwan nanti. I can just imagine the sadness in his face. Ok, ini perasan. Tapi knowing my father, I know he will! *gelak setan*

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Got stuck half way. I'll sambung later. See ya later, aligator!!!