Yes, I'm counting days now and if I can, I would count the hours to. Panic is officially my middle name. Panic dah lama tapi sekarang lebih panic daripada dulu. Panic, panic dah terus panic (mesti bercakap gaya Datuk Sheikh Muzaffar).
So anyways, here are few tips that I'm going to share to those who are in the midst of planning for their own wedding day. Yes, wedding preparation is by far the funnest (if ever the word exist) thing to do. You get the chance to see all the beautiful things. The flowers, the dais decorations, your wedding dress(es), the hantarans, creating your own wedding invitation card and for the fact that you are marrying the person that you love the most, well that's the most fun fact that you're getting. All these, all these fun preparation will soon fade away once you hit the last 2 months before the exact date.
And once it hits, you'll definitely will have the feeling of canceling your so called "happy day". You know how I know? Coz that is the feeling that I'm facing right now. The feeling of canceling my wedding day. The day that is 55 days away. The only feeling that you have now is the feeling of running away and never to come back. Dramatic kan?! Cuba lah nanti and you'll know what I mean.
Within these 2 months of period, there are few things that you have to finalize in order for you to get married. First is the Surat Pengesahan Perkahwinan. This is by far the suckiest procedure that one has to go through especially for those who are marrying in Selangor. Perasaannya macam nak bakar je pejabat jabatan agama. From Shah Alam to Taman Keramat, panjat jabatan agama itu ini baru nak selesai just to get the approval signatures.
The never ending fights with your parents is very very crucial. Period.
Dalam masa 2 bulan lah nak uji tahap kesabaran pasangan masing-masing. Penipu paling besar sebesar planet Marikh kalau siapa-siapa cakap yang dorang tak bergaduh dengan pasangan dorang during this period of time. The heat is on, everyone feels the tension, work is depressing (bagi yang bekerja seperti buruh kasar seperti kami), duit mengalir seperti air terjun; everything seem so wrong. When things don't go as planned, ayat paling glamor untuk di sebut tatkala ini adalah "susah-susah tak payah kahwin". Kan?!
The pressure from your surrounding is another factor.
*Sigh*
Bersabar dan berdoa agar masa berlalu dengan pantas sepantas kereta Ferrari di atas highway.
7 comments:
i sooo feel you, babe!!! although i takde la stress lagi kan.... but mcm now nak sort out engagement pun with him yg kerja 7 days per week ::effing difficult i tell you:: tak tau la camane nak kawin ni. hahaha. maybe more like i'm planning it alone; he's part of the things needed to be in it :P sad, i know aahahahaa. itulaaa sape suruh menggatal nak kawin time housemanship?
more of sape suruh menggatal nak kawen?! haha
gudluck babe wif the preparation. lebih mencabar time nak prepare for bernikah.
ajlaa dont stress urself out..take it slowly ..enjoy all this preparation to the fullest ok..once u dah kahwin nanti u mesti rindu all these things..rindu nak cari kain, cari barang2 hantaran cari wedding band and all..trust me. :D..so be cool and enjoy!!
haha thx kak bai tapi rasa-rasanya wedding prep ni mmg tak kan di ingat sampai bila-bila kot haha..chop! nnt org dingdong bell rumah hntar card ok! nntkan kehadiran saya!
rumah takde bell laaaa..kene knock knock or call first :P
hahaha, benar sekali ajla! kalau cincin aku ni berkepak dah lama dia terbang lari cos dah tak larat kena campak. *emosangat*, ayat susah2 tak payah kahwin tu memang keluar setiap kali nak bincang even sekecik2 benda even pasal sampin, padahal awie yang nak pakai bukan aku!. muahahaha! memang dasar!
yoyo
wow aggressive gila kau yoyo! aku belom tahap campak cincin lagi. muka akan aku cuba suatu hari nanti. idea yang bernas!
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