Sunday, September 25, 2011

It's a Wedhok!

Alhamdulillah, we finally got to know the gender of our baby. As our gynae puts it, it's a Wedhok dalam bahasa Jawa. If you're a proud Javanese, you'll probably understand what it stands for but if you don't then, google it out. I was having hard time figuring it myself too. Doctor boleh pula main teka-teki di pagi hari. No, actually he was having fun making us in total clueless since the last two check-ups with the whole Wedhok thingy.

But what's important is that the baby's healthy and in good condition. Wedhok or Lanang is not my main concern asal baby dalam keadaan sihat dan cukup sifat; syukur Alhamdulillah. Syukur to Allah for the rezki, syukur yang teramat sangat. It's the greatest feeling I've ever experienced. Nasib baik tak terjatuh air mata during check-up semalam. Coverline baik punya. It was indeed the happiest day of my life.

Had a major scan yesterday to determine the size of the baby, weight, length, features and all; mana lah tak teremosi mak! Alhamdulillah baby is all good; about 732g  (ter-over weight sikit for a 24 weeks old fetus). I'm not sure about the length though as there are too many mm(s) and cm(s) at the scan results paper and I don't know how to read them but I'm pretty sure that the baby is not that long as the ibu and papa are not that tall after all *teeheee* but most importantly, I gained 6kg since the last check-up. Hah! blame on the scrumptious food I had this whole month of raya. Takpe, I eat for three remember; one for me, one for the baby and one for me again - that's what I told everyone whenever they saw me chewing/eating. Janji ibu and baby sihat, kan?

At 24 weeks

Mulutnya agak sexy (Oh! lihatlah ibunya *teehee*), hidung rasa-rasanya kurang mancung (Oh! lihatlah ibunya sekali lagi) dan matanya masih tertutup (obviously!) but the round shaped face and chubby looking cheek is making ibu and papa very very happy! Alhamdulillah, syukur!

Ok, enough on the baby's update. I promise myself to stay focus on my work today but as expected, I've yet to touch on it since 9 this morning. Hai! work has been hell and I'm totally not in the mood. I need motivation but I have no idea where to look from. Sigh!

Have a wonderful Sunday happy people!

Rainy Sunday Morning

Couple of days ago, there was war on twitter over #SayaGenerasi. And to surprise, it was the most trending hashtag worldwide on that day. Impressive ha!!

Picture credit to: The Nik Khazami
And I don't want to miss the fun. Here's what I contributed:-

  • #SayaGenerasi yang gilakan Archie Comic, Sweet Valley Kids, Sweet Valley Teens, Sweet Valley High
  • #SayaGenerasi main rollerskate/rollerblade di petang hari bersama rakan-rakan
  • #SayaGenerasi Bas mini kontot color pink bersama conductor bus "Bangkok bank! Bangkok bank"
  • #SayaGenerasi main galah panjang + batu seremban + tiang-tiang di sekolah.
  • #SayaGenerasi yang gilakan BSB, Spice Girls, NSYNC, KRU dan kadang-kadang 4U2C
  • #SayaGenerasi Green, Maclay, Shirtliff, Prouse, Cooke
  • #SayaGenerasi cartoon Transformer hari sabtu pagi & Power Rangers hari sabtu petang
  • #SayaGenerasi mIRC sebelum friendster, myspace, facebook & twitter
  • #SayaGenerasi Jalan Bukit Bintang/Jalan Raja Chulan sebelum ditransform menjadi Golden Triangle
Maxis 3G was being impossible that day, I can't continue having fun. But, I would love to add:-
  • #SayaGenerasi BBGS sebelum Pavillion
  • #SayaGenerasi yang berdiri di kaki sendiri
  • #SayaGenerasi pusat tuition Kasturi
  • #SayaGenerasi main selipar campak-campak
  • #SayaGenerasi yang mempunyai guru-guru yang super garang & sangat bagus
  • #SayaGenerasi Linkin' park & Limp Bizkit di tingkatkan 3/4
  • #SayaGenerasi Bas sekolah Pakcik Borhan bersama budak CBN & St. John
  • #SayaGenerasi main kawen-kawen & sorok-sorok
  • #SayaGenerasi Pecah kaca pecah gelas, sudah baca harap balas
  • #SayaGenerasi Best friend forever
  • #SayaGenerasi "Awak jahat, tak nak kawan!"
  • #SayaGenerasi Awie & Erra dalam cerita Sembilu
  • #SayaGenerasi Devon Sawa adalah boyfriend idaman
  • #SayaGenerasi kanak-kanak yang harus mempunyai stationary set yang color coordinated. Mine was  red in color.
  • #SayaGenerasi main missed call & 2 second time di Matrikulasi.
And the list goes on.

I would love to add more but I'm out of idea since the weather is so cold and cozy and breezy and ahhhh, let's go to bed again shall we?! It's a rainy Sunday morning. Ahh, I'm in love!

Friday, September 9, 2011

#2 Pregnancy Tips - Coffee for Pregnant Moms-to-Be

I can say that I am a proud coffee drinker. My everyday routine involves me having a cup of hot black coffee in the morning, a nice latte in the evening and nescafe tarik at night. And ever since I'm pregnant, I have stopped entirely in consuming one which is hard for me considering the fact that I am a hardcore coffee drinker and it's unbearable. It's hard, very, very hard!

So, I googled and found this article below which can help moms-to-be who are like me; an addicted coffee drinker in drinking coffee while being pregnant.

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The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists revised its guidelines about drinking coffee and caffeinated beverages in July of 2010. The new guidelines say that up to 200 mg daily of caffeine does not increase the risk of miscarriage or preterm birth. The new guideline was published in the August 2010 issue of “Obstetrics and Gynecology” and is based on a comprehensive review of all published studies on caffeine risks during pregnancy.

According to the ACOG’s Committee on Obstetric Practice, there is good evidence to show that having a cup of coffee a day doesn’t affect the risk of miscarriage or premature births. Dr. William H. Barth Jr., chairman of the committee, told U.S. News & World Report, “Finally, we have good evidence to show that having a cup of coffee a day is fine and it poses no risk to the fetus.”

For reference, an 8 oz. cup of brewed coffee contains about 137 mg of caffeine, while a cup of instant has about 78 mg of caffeine. If you’re pregnant, you should also be aware of caffeine intake from other beverages and foods and count that against your caffeine for the day.

The committee didn’t make any statement about whether caffeine during pregnancy restricts fetal growth or has other effects on the growing fetus.

Caffeine in Pregnancy and ADHD

An early study suggested that there may be a connection between coffee during pregnancy and ADHD. A study found that children whose mothers had taken the equivalent of 10 cups of coffee a day during pregnancy had three times the risk of ADHD. Once the researchers adjusted the results to account for other factors, however, they found the increased risk was statistically insignificant — that is, they determined that even at that level, children born to mothers who drink coffee have no more risk of having ADHD than those born to mothers who don’t drink coffee or other caffeinated drinks.

Previously:

It seems that the connection between coffee and pregnancy may not be as simple as most people have always believed. A few recent studies show that drinking moderate amounts of coffee during late pregnancy may not be as bad for you as we’d thought. On the other hand, there seems to be a definite link between coffee and infertility.

Drinking coffee during pregnancy has been one of those automatic no-nos for a very long time, so a study released in January by the British Medical Journal may come as a surprise. Researchers studying the effects of drinking coffee during pregnancy found that “coffee in moderation is safe during pregnancy”. But is it really?

The effects of coffee during pregnancy is extensively researched – and the results of the various studies into the effects of caffeine and coffee on pregnant women, fertility and the development of the growing baby are contradictory at best. This latest study suggests that women who take in less than 300 mgs of caffeine per day are not endangering their babies. That’s widely been reported as ‘about the same amount of caffeine as three cups of coffee’ – and that’s where things get sticky. Is that a cup of home brewed drip coffee? An espresso at your favorite coffee bar? A sixteen ounce latte? A cup of instant? Each of those has a different amount of caffeine – and it’s not always easy to guess which coffee drinks are the most loaded with caffeine.

Another study in Denmark back in 2003 found that women who drank more than eight daily cups of coffee during pregnancy increased their risk of miscarriage or stillbirth by as much as 300%. The researchers suspected that the reason may be that caffeine constricts the blood vessels, meaning that less blood gets through the placenta to the developing baby. They also suggested that the caffeine in coffee may directly affect the baby, whose developing system is far more sensitive to caffeine than the mother’s. Other studies suggest that up to five daily cups of coffee during pregnancy is safe for your baby.

According to most medical experts, the bottom line on drinking coffee during pregnancy is this: pregnant women should reduce their intake of caffeine during pregnancy to about the amount found in 1 to 2 cups of coffee a day.

What about decaffeinated coffee and pregnancy?

There’s far less research into decaffeinated coffee and pregnancy. Since caffeine is the major culprit in the ill effects of drinking coffee during pregnancy, it stands to reason that during pregnancy decaf coffee is fine. There’s no suggestion that decaf has any ill effects on pregnancy at all. In other words, if you must drink coffee during pregnancy decaf coffee is the way to go. Caffeinated coffee should be limited to no more than one to two cups of coffee per day.

The Good News About Coffee in Late Pregnancy

The Danish study reported in January studied the intake of coffee in late pregnancy – the last trimester. It showed that in over 1200 women, those who drank no more than 300 mgs of caffeine a day showed no difference in birth weight or premature births with women who drank strictly decaffeinated coffee during pregnancy. If you really need that shot of caffeine, you might try replacing a few cups of coffee a day with decaffeinated coffee during pregnancy.


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So mommies, it's pretty clear now that there is no problem in drinking coffee while being pregnant as long as you comsume sufficient amount per day. And to note that coffee isn't just the only source of drinks that's caffeine content.

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

#1 Pregnancy Tips

Since I have all the time in the world (bosses are away for client's meeting and I'm not joining) hence the second post of the day. And since I am a super excited ibu-to-be, I'll be posting over pregnancy tips for moms-to-be. Haven't you notice? I've been posting over pregnancy related stuff lately. I am a proud ibu-to-be, don't blame the excitement. I am poyo this way, I know!

So here it goes:

Four exercises to ease aches and help with labor

1) Kegel

Kegel exercises are small internal contractions of the pelvic floor muscles that support your urethra, bladder, uterus, and rectum. Strengthening your pelvic floor muscles improves circulation to your rectal and vaginal area, helping to keep hemorrhoids at bay and speeding healing after an episiotomy or tear, if you have one during childbirth. There's even some evidence suggesting that strong pelvic floor muscles may shorten the pushing stage of labor.

You can do Kegels anywhere — sitting at your computer, watching TV, even standing in line at the supermarket. Here's how:
  • Tighten the muscles around your vagina as if trying to interrupt the flow of urine when going to the bathroom.
  • Hold for a count of four, then release. Repeat ten times. Try to work up to three or four sets about three times a day.
2) Pelvic Tilt or Angry Cat

This variation of the pelvic tilt, done on all fours, strengthens the abdominal muscles and eases back pain during pregnancy and labor.
  • Get down on your hands and knees, arms shoulder-width apart and knees hip-width apart, keeping your arms straight but not locking the elbows.
  • As you breathe in, tighten your abdominal muscles and tuck your buttocks under and round your back.
  • Relax your back into a neutral position as you breathe out.
  • Repeat at your own pace, following the rhythm of your breath.

3) Squat

It may not be the most elegant position, but squatting is a time-honored way of preparing for and giving birth. This exercise strengthens your thighs and helps open your pelvis.

  • Stand facing the back of a chair with your feet slightly more than hip-width apart, toes pointed outward. Hold the back of the chair for support.
  • Contract your abdominal muscles, lift your chest, and relax your shoulders. Then lower your tailbone toward the floor as though you were sitting down on a chair. Find your balance — most of your weight should be toward your heels.
  • Take a deep breath in and then exhale, pushing into your legs to rise to a standing position.
4) Tailor or Cobbler Pose

This position can help open your pelvis and loosen your hip joints in preparation for birth. It can also improve your posture and ease tension in your lower back.
  • Sit up straight against a wall with the soles of your feet touching each other (sit on a folded towel if that's more comfortable for you).
  • Gently press your knees down and away from each other, but don't force them.
  • Stay in this position for as long as you're comfortable.
Remember to start slowly and work at your own level for each exercise.

Source: Baby Center

So there you go. I did most of the exercises during the weekends. At least I tried too lah! But I did a lot of walking as part of my daily exercise. I make sure that I walk either inside the office building or during lunch hour. Tapi jangan lah sampai tercungap-cungap. And please make sure that you wear comfortable shoes with you. No heels please! Look at what happen to Victoria Beckham for wearing killer heels during pregnancy and you don't want to be like her don't you?

Selamat mencuba!

News moves faster than speedlight

So, my office will be leaving for Taipei on a 3D2N trip this 22nd September. Sadly, I won't be joining the trip due to pregnancy (obviously lah kan!). I did asked my gynea and he said that I'm prefectly fine to travel as long as I have my vitamins and consume sufficient food during my trip then I should be okay! But I choose not too. Afterall, this is my first baby and I don't want to risk anything on it. Walaupun pada hakikatnya memang tak nak pegi sebab Taipei adalah destinasinya. A bit rugi as it is fully covered/sponsored by the company from airfare to accomodation to everything. Ahh! There's always next year right?

Jadi, ceritanya begini. The only person that I remember telling, declining the offer was to the CFO. Itu pun sebab everyone needs to send a confirmation of participant via email to her and I did marked my GM for notification coz she needs to know who's going and who's not from our department. While the rest, I don't think they need to know whether I'll be joining or not.

Apparently, everyone in the office knows that I'm not going and they keep on bugging me with questions on why I'm not joining. Isn't it obvious already?!

Pendek cerita, everyone talks even when you think they won't. It's either a good thing or the opposite. People will still talk.

Ok, jadi ini sahaja cerita merapu saya pada lunch hour hari ini. Sekian terima kasih.

On another random note - I miss the good smell and taste of a black coffee. This is hard especially when I'm planning to breast feed my baby. Consuming drinks that contain high level of caffeine will only lessen its productivity. Hurmmm....

Ok now back to work. Happy Wednesday lovebirds!

Friday, September 2, 2011

1 Syawal 1432H

The Clan.

With Tok & Irfan nakal

Mr & Mrs Izwan on hari raya. Baju sedondong y'oulls. Jangan marah!

With Sister-in-Law

With Mother-in-Law

Ladies of the house

After all the scrumptious food I had during Syawal, I have now grown number of pimples scattered all over my face. Those oily yummylicious food and sweet taste drinks were the course of the unwanted growth. Sigh!

Nevertheless, I had a fun first, second and third day of Syawal in Kedah; just like how I wanted it to be. Alhamdulillah.

And I am now back to the city. To make it worst, I am now back in the office enjoying my day doing nothing. How's everyone's raya doing? Hope you had a fun one too!