The different between a 25 year old lady and a 25 year old lady who thinks like a 15 year old girl is....isn't it obvious?! Do I still need to clarify?!
One may has the physical of a 25 year old human being but that doesn't mean that one is really acting on one's age. It's all about maturity if you must say. Ada orang dewasa sebelum usianya. Ada orang entah bila-bila akan capai tahap kematangannya. Kesannya, well, lu pikir lah sendiri.
I'm not saying that I have reached my maturity level. I still have the childishness in me but I know when and where or who I can actually expresses my childishness. Kadang-kadang, dengan perbuatan mengada-ngada itu boleh membawa kepada keselesaan diri. Sometimes, but not most of the time ye adik-adik. Sendiri kena pandailah kan.
Logically, when someone has reached his/her quarter life of age, he/she should be able to do things right and has reached the maturity in making decisions. The ability in seeing things rationally. Able to judge and differentiate between right and wrong. Most importantly, one should be able to prioritize what's important and what's not. Sadly, some people don't have the quality in being one. At least paling busuk pun, one should be able to think rationally. Kata dah 25 tahun. Tak kan tak boleh berfikir?
Ini baru mukadimahnya belum sampai ke isi kandungan.
But I decided not to elaborate more on this coz I think I've wrote about this before. Redundancy, orang pon boring nak baca, saya pun malas nak tulis. Macamlah ada orang yang baca.
Kesimpulannya, well, I don't have anything to write on the kesimpulan coz I don't think that I'm that perfect either. I made mistakes and learned from my mistakes. I try to be someone better each day. Try to improve myself in every possible way. Cuba untuk tidak menyakitkan supaya tiada yang menyakiti.
We can't expect people to live their lives on our expectations. After all, we have no rights in controlling others' life. We are not born with perfection. We don't have the similarities in thinking. We see things differently. All that we need to do is to communicate in order to understand each other. Communication is the greatest tool in keeping a good relationship between friends, family or anyone for that matter.
To have a good life is by having a good heart. Kalau masih menyimpan dendam, well, you can never go far. You are actually killing yourself, damaging your soul bit my bit. It can never be good. It is as bad as having a heart attack or operating one side of your breast for being diagnosed for having a breast cancer or even worst!
So from on, start living your life they way you should be. After all, people is really watching if you know what I mean.
Goodnight everybody and have a great weekend.
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