There was an episode of Sex & The City season 6 playing on HBO last night. They never failed in being inspirational especially for those who are facing the hardship in life and relationship. It isn't just about the dresses that they wore or the killer heels that walked together with that smooth beautiful pair or legs or the blinking blinked accessories that composite those drop dead gorgeous dresses or for the fact that the romantic scene one is having really portraying the love one is getting. No, it is not just that!
It was an episode where Carrie was being super excited in introducing her Russian boyfriend to her girlfriends but ended up being ditched for the wrong timing. He, the Russian man was in the midst of preparing for his own art exhibition in Paris do not want anyone to disturb him while working on his so called "masterpiece" including Carrie, the love of his life. And being an understanding friends, the girls went home right away and canceled their plan of touring the luxurious apartment where the hunk Russian is staying.
Knowing Carrie who is very defensive trying to defend her friends whom she loves so much for the fact that they were being ditched went to see Alexandra at his studio for a consolation. But instead, she went there to only see that Alexandra was having his own breakdown. The moment she saw that gloomy face of Alexandra, she decided to shut her mouth and be a good listener, consoling her Russian boyfriend and be a good girlfriend.
Maybe, just maybe, I may need to shut my mouth sometimes and be a good listener instead. I've done enough of talking but less listening which is not good at all.
I talked and I nagged macam orang tua. Well, who doesn't?! And people tend to hate it most of the time. Talking is good but being talkative sometimes can kill one's personality.
I talk so much and sometimes (most of the time sebenarnya) I got carried away with things that I talked about and I know how devastated my partner is just to layan all the talking(s) I made. One thing that I always forget is that, it is not always about me. Things don't actually always revolve me. It is not just me who lives in this world and I have to start to listen to other people coz they matters too.
Orang melayu pun ada cakap, "orang yang banyak cakap, isinya selalu kosong" and I couldn't agree more. The more you talk, the more crappy things came out from your mouth. The more it comes out, the higher chance of you making a fool of yourself. The foolish you'll be, the greater chance of people making fun of you and the list goes on. You get it, don't you?!
So now ladies, you decide.
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